The Mutt, Catwoman & Deep Blue Sea

The Mutt , Catwoman and Deep Blue Sea made my day today - it's always a joy to get some feedback from other bloggers, and read their thoughts on my posts. Today they wrote amusing thoughts on my post on "Sari & Sins".

Nel: I wonder why men leaves their wives for such sluts and bitches. I don't understand - do men prefer bad girls to good girls? So why the hunt for "The Virtuous Woman", only to end up with a "Horny Slut" (money grabbing in 90% of the cases, too) after they get bored with "The Virtuous Woman".

The Mutt: Really, men are quite stupid, I'll admit it, because we always fall for the attractive/bitch package. But it never works out...

Nel: [Smiling] Because men thinks with one head at a time. Depends which one is doing the thinking.

Deep Blue Sea: Well..since I've seen her pic, I most honestly cannot say what he saw in her looks. Combined with what I am sure is a screechy voice and crass language (behaviour, I shudder to think; table manners....ouch!), I think he lost his head somewhere (between his legs?). Ummmph....and they say men are rational creatures. *eyes rolling*

Nel: Beats me...and I thought I married a smart man. I don't mean to be arrogant, you know I'm hardly that, but she is an insult to his intelligence. I can understand if beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but bad manners, is bad manners, period. There's no beauty in bad manners, and being crass. If beauty dwells deep within and is a mind over matter, then what the hell is the matter with his mind?

The Mutt: The bitch seems to be quite tenacious now, but I give her another month or two, and she'll drop your poor ex-hubby and move on to her next victim, fangs wet.

Nel: She's a bloodsucker alright, with terrible manners and very bad English to boot. I can't help but giggle the first time I heard her speak, and baffled too, at The Ex-Hubby's bad taste, and insulted too, because, if he must leave me, I expect her to be someone much better than me.

Catwoman: Either she's just playing with your mind (via the Bro-in-law, thinking that you'd get excited and get in touch with Ex), or she's found out that the Ex ain't that rich after all.

Nel: She has been holding by the balls. He's probably broke by now looking at how she vacuums (being a sucker) him clean for the last 3 years - to financially support her and her two brats.

The Mutt: "The way I see it,you can either sit back, relax, and wait for him to drop down on the ground to tell him "In your face asshole!" or you can ignore them both and continue your reconnaissance with Boom, which is closer to Kareena's personality, an admirable, loyal woman with integrity.

Nel: I still have that crush for Mr. Crush Boom Bang. But even if I'm not setting my sights on the moon for Mr. Crush Boom Bang, I would probably just ignore The Other Woman's mind games - my life no longer evolves around The Ex-Hubby, so she can fuck off if she thinks I would be jumping with excitement like a little child who gets a new toy. I have pride and integrity, and I won't stoop low to succumb to her mind games. I'd say to her, shoo, low life - get a life!

Catwoman: Damn, she's a sicko. But what about you? How are you?

Nel: I can't throw away my more "happening" life just to catch him fall into my arms. I'm no longer his safety net who would catch him everytime he falls. I hope he realises that I'm also no longer his door mat, punching bag and ego soother - I have arrived, as a financially and emotionally independent career woman.

If The Ex-Hubby wants me back, he has to strip his ego and crawls to me if that is what it takes. On that note, he has not even once, asked for my forgiveness, in person, like a man, to my face. He has to learn how to be a true gentleman at heart, not just looking and acting like one. Maybe that would be a good start. After what he did to me, is that too much to ask?