Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Love works wondrous miracles

An old friend, Liliput made my day, when she told me that I look better and younger nowadays. She asked me what skincare I’m using right now. She looked at me incredulously when I told her nowadays I just use on-the-shelf beauty products like St. Ives and Neutrogena for my skincare. Gone are my Estee Lauder, Clarins and Lancome skincare regime that I was used to in my younger days.


I’m going back to basics, I told her. I don’t even go for my facials as religiously like I used to before, nowadays it’s home spa twice weekly. Going to the spa would be a treat every now and then when I think I need it.


Liliput knows I used to invest a lot on skincare. Really, I didn’t mind spending money on my skin. But over the years, it beats me to realize that my skin did not improve as much as I expected.

Well, when you pay good money for a beauty product, you want miracles to happen, right? Naahh it didn’t work that way a lot of times.

The really good ones like La Mer and SKII will burn holes in your pocket over time and I’m not willing to go broke for the sake of looking fabulous. Hehehe unless someone else is paying for me. Being a minimalist, I don’t believe in being superfluous when the basics meet your needs.

Nowadays I don’t look at the brand name as much, but I look at the active ingredient and the result you want it to deliver. This you get from doing some research - something smart I learned from my ex-housemate Bumper to Bumper.


As I grow money wise, I think creams, lotions, potions and make up are just icing on the cake. If our heart and soul is not filled with love, we don't feel as beautiful. That’s where our makeover should begin.

Anyways a lot of times love is the greatest cure – both at the giving and receiving ends. Loving ourselves and loving others, and having others love us work wondrous miracles in our lives.

As Ernesto Cardenal puts it, "We turn outward, attracted by the beauty we see in created things without realizing that they are only a reflection of the real beauty. And the real beauty is within us."

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Salaam Nel!
Glad ur chirpy again thinking of girlie stuffs like skin care! Nothing beats being told that you look younger. Women's weakness, right?
I got a sample of La Mer recently. Not only does it smell, it didn't do anything for my skin. So I'll stick to my brand which I've been using 15 years.
Take Care,
Kak Intan(anon mum)

Penglipur Lara said...

Salaam Kak Intan, am happy to finally be able to call you by name :)

Hehehe you got that rite, feels good when people tell you look good and younger. Vainpot, I am :)

Idham said...

liza, salam...

LovE gives anyone the needed glow.
LoVe Making added the glow to places where blusher's brush can't reach...
Stay Healhty and beautifu....LoVe the LoVe making...*wink*

IdHam

Nour said...

Nel/Liza,

Thats nice. Thnx for sharing the secret recipe for looking good and young. BTW read an article from the "O" mag compilation (oprah's) they say if you don't have oily and acne prone skin don't bother using a toner, also going for facials is just for short term results, it doesn't do any good in the long run..Hmmn, pretty interesting info there. I guess I was misinformed all thse years then. Take care.

Anonymous said...

Hye Liza,

I am once a 'skin care maniacs' as I want to look beautiful like others. I used to jump from Estee Lauder-SKII-La Mer(sample) and now I'm stick with Biotherm. It doesn't do me much but it does kiss away my acne.

But from now on, I just live by this part of christina aguilera's beautiful song...no matter what ppl say abt me...*wink*

"I am beautiful no matter what they say,
Words can’t bring me down,
I am beautiful in every single way,
Yes, words can’t bring me down,
So don’t you bring me down today..."


p/s: Kak Intan, you did bring me the memories of La Mer's smells (yUcCCkks!)

So Liza, YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL!!!...

Penglipur Lara said...

Blown Away, you cheeky fella :)

Nour, no wonder my skin feels better afterI stopped going for regular facials. Hmmm now we know!

Happy Flavor, I agree with you, we're all beautiful in every single way :)

Tengkiu, tengkiu, tengkiu for making my day, my dear friends, especially when i'm not well today. I think I'm coming down with flu....

Anonymous said...

Total Effects does it for me, less acne nowadays...and i'm a guy (straight). It's really good, pecayalah..

Anonymous said...

"I'm blessedfully sweet, cute and cuddly - not overweight, just undertall."

ha!ha!ha! c'mon la nel, don't over-estimate yourself *LOL* it's something to be delusional, but another thing to deny a fact...

Anonymous said...

NEL,

hv read ur blog entries. and seen how u look like ( refer photo on kinabalu ). not judging ...but yes, u r sweet. too sweet to be messed up by heartless, lazy, brainless bums. u deserve more.

teardrops.

Penglipur Lara said...

Thanks, teardrops. I think I do deserve a better man. I dunno why I'm always getting the wrong man.

Too many jerks out there. I guess you have to be kissing many toads before you find your real prince charming...