Friday, December 03, 2004

Sari & Sins

Last night, I finished reading "Sari & Sins" by Nisha Minha - a story about a Punjabi woman, Kareena who was married off to Samir by her parents. Samir was perfect, except that he has a dark secret in the shapely form of Cloey, his mistress who is not ready to give him up, or rather his house and bank balances.

Cloey reminds me of The Other Woman whom The Ex-Hubby is keeping. Very greedy, crude and possessive - nothing is ever enough to please Cloey. Where else, Kareena, was supportive and does everything she could to make Samir happy. Sounds like what I did for The Ex-Hubby for 15 years that we knew each other (and 7 years of marriage).

By the way, on Dec 15, the second day of Hari Raya, I got a missed call from The Ex-Hubby's mobile phone - I didn't manage to pick up the call in time as I was in the bathroom. I couldn't call back immediately, either, as I had run out of my prepaid credit and was too busy attending to mom's Hari Raya guests.

I asked Emak if I should call him back. Emak said there's no harm in calling back, as he probably expected me to call, being the miser he is. Hmmm...one if things guys should know - in order to be in your mom-in-law's good books, never, never, be stingy with her.

So, I called his mobile back like a few hours later. When I said "Hello", The Other Woman's voice was harshly telling me "Pukimak, apa kau mau?" ("Bitch, what do you want?") and then she hung up. I was shocked to hear such vulgarity from her, that I was speechless for a moment. When I recovered, I called back the number to tell her off but the phone was turned off. So, I never got to her. But I sms her telling her that I'm disappointed in The Ex-Hubby's choice of woman lately - she has no manners at all, I don't what he sees in her. He must be blind.

I wonder if he is really happy now? Stuck with a cormorant (new word I learned today - gluttonous, greedy, or rapacious person) lowlife such as THAT.

Just like Samir, Kareena and Cloey's love triangle, I wonder why men leaves their nice wives for such sluts and bitches. I don't understand - do men prefer bad girls to good girls? So why the hunt for The Virtuous Woman, only to end up with a Horny Slut (money grabbing in 90% of the cases, too) after they get bored with The Virtuous Woman.

My mind was echoing Michelle Branch when she sings: Could you look me in the eye, and tell me that you're happy now? Would you tell it to my face (or have I been erased), are you happy now? Ohhh, ohhhh are you happy now? Are you happy now? Are you happy now?

I called up The Ex Hubby's Sister-in-Law, and she said The Other Woman does that all the time when she calls The Ex-Hubby's Sister. The Other Woman wouldn't let The Ex Hubby get close to his own family. The Mummy-in-Law told me that for the whole of Ramadhan month, The Ex Hubby hardly come by except for Hari Raya's eve. He came by on the first day of Hari Raya and left right after lunch, when his phone rang (they assumed it was The Other Woman having him at her beck and call 24/7).

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I also found out that The Ex-Hubby's Brother got a phone call from The Other Woman to interrogate him how often I call The Ex-Hubby's Family and how often they call me. Waaah, so nosy eh? The Ex-Hubby's Brother told her that we keep in touch very often. And she asked if they still love me. He said, of course. She told him, if that is so, then they can have me back as she's backing off, she's obviously unwanted. Whoa, this is incredible, too good to be true, indeed. I even checked my ears if they are working properly.

I told Graveyard Shift and Madam Fuss-Over, and they said, it's not that she's giving him up. It is just that, being a parasite that she is, she probably found another "tree" to live on and suck it dry. She's leaving The Ex-Hubby only when he is going to be useless to her. She has probably caught a Bigger Fish.

Do you think so? Tell me what is your theory...

2 comments:

PP said...

I had a girlfriend once like that. She almost turned me gay by the end of the relationship, hehe. She left me because "It just doesn't feel the same as it did."

A big load of BS, as I later found out, when I saw her making out if with another guy at a New Year's party, two days later. A good friend told me she hooked up with him while I was gone to Quebec for vacations. Oy gevalt!

Really, men are quite stupid, I'll admit it, because we always fall for the attractive/bitch package. But it never works out, as you explained earlier.

The bitch seems to be quite tenacious now, but I give her another month or two, and she'll drop your poor ex-hubby and move on to her next victim, fangs wet.

The way I see it,you can either sit back, relax, and wait for him to drop down on the ground to tell him "In your face asshole!" or you can ignore them both and continue your reconnaissance with Boom, which is closer to Kareena's personality, an admirable, loyal woman with integrity.

Anonymous said...

Either she's just playing with your mind (via the Bro-in-law, thinking that you'd get excited and get in touch with Ex), or she's found out that the Ex ain't that rich after all. Got bigger fish in her pocket already.

Damn, she's a sicko. But what about you? How are you?

Leen@xanga.com/ashburn :)